rayne sure makes sense to me. i am sober 4 yrs and 11 mnths and i know i couldnt stop on my own power. i needed to surrender and make a decision that i was stating i am an alcoholic. only myself and perhaps those in psychiatry/medical field can tell me the same. no one else. for me the 1st step was crucial.  i drank earlier every day and year of…[Read more]